Monday, August 1, 2011

On Dating a Rock-star Who Actually is Into You

You nailed it. You got the guy every other girl dreams of. He is the guitar-god or the keyboardist whose fingers are too exquisite they hardly seem real. Then here comes girl-friends bursting your bubble with stories of how this type of guy left them hanging, went to a gig one night and never returned. Add this up with the violent reaction of your mother when she learns of what is transpiring between you and that tattooed guy who drives an old-school van. Inevitably, your smiles will be reduced to a bitter smirk. However, before you make a run for it, compare what other people says and what this guy does for you.

Apple of the Eye

Rock-stars may have been known to be quite the ladies’ (yes. Ladies) men, but they can still be monogamous. They are still human despite their inhuman talents. Just like you, they may just be waiting for that person whose heartbeat can drown out the music in their minds and drive them crazy. Think. If they choose the backstage, where you stand by waiting, over a crowd of screaming ladies in front of them onstage, isn’t that enough to show you how much you are the needle in the haystack he’s most willing to search for?

The Best Crafted

You know how these guys love their instruments so much, and they are known to sleep with them more often than they sleep with their lovers. But if they can let go of it the moment you enter the room, then you are assured that you are the deal. You are the one who fits in the space right between him and the instrument. Due to their egos inflated by a lifetime of praise, though, they may have a hard time telling you this. You just need to be extra sensitive. After all, you are dating an artist.

Louder than Life

Yes. Music is their life. They sleep and wake up to the sound of their music player. They cannot drive without music. They can’t wait for you without sounds plugged into their ears. And when they go the mall, there is no other shop there, but the music store. Thus, when they decrease the volume of their sound-trip just to listen to you that means something else. That may mean your voice rocks their world more than music can. Definitely, this is something to be happy about.

These things do not, however, give you the right to change the person. It only means that you are special to that certain point. It is your job now to show the world and make it understand that dating a rock-star is not always like dating the meanest guy in the world. It may actually be realization of a dream, or the happily ever after thing.

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